Despondent, dejected.........naaaaaah!

Yep. Despondent.
About the best way I can describe how I feel after this week.
Firstly, we've confused ourselves with the electricity bill-I though DH had paid it, he thought I had......$650 to fork out on payday, Friday.
Then, the day after I've arranged with the leccy co. that we'll pay the bill on Friday, DH gets stopped by coppers saying our car is not registered and he might be arrested for this. Whaaaaaat?!! Turns out we're s'posed to have some form or other that we're then s'posed to have taken to the Rego place and transferred into our name.......$540!!! What a right royal pain. I sort out with the car dealers we bought from, DH gets stopped by the police again, right outside the darn school!! How embarrassing! Swines.
Well, that's my wage gone for the fortnight-what do we live on for a fortnight? Get some money transferred over. Have to. Got the darn rent to pay as well! Nightmare.
I hate debt. Bills.
On top of that, today at work, I get told that I'm not pulling my weight, having too many breaks, not doing enough 'reviews', distracting others, not using my time effectively for work purposes etc etc. Juveniles.
If people have nothing better to do than comment on my work-or perceived lack of it!- then what exactly are they doing?!!! Have folk nothing better to do than criticize others? What about all the organising, updating, clarifying, arranging, juggling, adapting, coordinating, networking, reviewing, researching, developing? Oh and the client rapport-building, client appointment-aligning, follow up, phone calls, helping other team members with their work? Not enough? Tough.
This is me. I enjoy work. I like work. I work. Well.
I work hard.
Got issues?
Sort them.
Do not use me as your reason for feeling like crap.
Negative comments from you are far outweighed by positive responses to me, my work and how I work with others.
Get a life.

Yep, sorry, I'm feeling reeeeeeeeeeeally jacked off with comments that have found their way to me today. And believe me, if I'm not doing my job properly, I want to know about it. Need to. Have to. I need that feed back so I can improve.

When it is justified.

I don't like conflict for conflicts sake. If folk have a gripe with me, speak to me. Directly. Not through someone else who actually doesn't share your view but is in a position to have to put your gripe forward.

Grow up.
Relax
Just be.
Chill.

On top of that, no scrapping done........too tired.........working too hard.....not that some folk would agree!!!

Why do folk do this????

Her's hoping for a better weekend!!